Update This last few months after I finally could get myself and my daughters out of an abusive relationship, has been quite intense and overwhelming, in the way of so many emotions and doubts crossing my mind and my body, at the same time, moving, setting a new space to live and to work and… Continue reading Co-Dependency & Narcissistic Abuse Awareness
On the first week of 2018, I felt that I could not keep on living in the apartment in Shiva Garden Home Stay anymore where I would see him every day and would be surrounded by 50 to 70 people daily when all I wanted was a quiet private place to write, work and to… Continue reading The Moving After Finishing the Relationship – How It all Happened
Sitting here in the garden, I look to all we have done together. All the creations, the paintings, the crafts. 10 years of Shiva Garden, almost 7 with us together. Shiva Garden is a place for Creators. It's a place for Free Souls. It's the place for the so named "crazy ones". The ones who… Continue reading Closing a Cycle
This is the sharing of my journey through discovery and recovery of my codependency. One month before I discovered that I have been a co-dependent person during all my life and I am sharing this here, in public because I found out through sharing this subject with my best friends that unfortunately this is a… Continue reading Daughters and Sons Of An Imperfect World
Ok, now that we know the patterns-and-characteristics of a Co-Dependent person, comes the question: From where this comes from? What is the origin source for a person develop such characteristics? While the answers aren’t the same for everyone, for most people it begins in childhood. This is important because children are extremely impressionable. Young children… Continue reading Causes Of Co-Dependency
The Realization That You May Have Co-Dependent Patterns I will share here with you as, unfortunately there are many adults in our days, whom are sons and daughters of narcissistic parents and themselves transform into adults, partners and parents with narcissistic and co-dependent patterns that pass to their own kids. This goes in chain, generation… Continue reading What is Co-Dependency
Did you ever stop to wonder why do we go the extra mile on smiling, being nice, giving and serving way too often? From where this pattern comes from? The Reason: Why We Do It? Why we go the extra mile on smiling, being nice, giving and serving...way too often? A friend of mine is… Continue reading When We Go “The Extra Mile” on Giving, Serving and Smiling…Way Too Often!
There is no peace, love or forgiveness inside yourself as long as you are not living with your Truth. Spirituality is not about living in a lie, in a illusion, unhappy or unfulfilled inside, in the name of peace. Spirituality, for me, is, in every moment, being mindfully living and being authentic to yourself, knowing… Continue reading Spirituality Versus Assertiveness